Benjamin Royal Grishaber

September 24, 2022
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Rushville-Benjamin Royal Grishaber, age 28, passed away Saturday, September 24, 2022.

Friends may call on Thursday, Sept. 29 from 2- 4 p.m. at the Middlesex Baptist Church where a funeral service will be held at 4 p.m.

Ben was born on June 15, 1994 a son of the late Grover Eugene Grishaber and Denise Casillo Baylor. He enjoyed riding dirt bikes or anything with an engine. Ben loved the outdoors and was a hunter and fisherman. He liked to cook and work on woodworking projects. Ben was devoted to and loved his family more than anything.

Ben is survived by his wife, Alyssa Grishaber; three children, Evelyn Grishaber, Julian Grishaber and Geno Grishaber; three step-children, Killian Lamphier, Myah Chapin and Mason Bayer; mother, Denise Baylor; step-father, John Baylor; maternal grandfather, Gerald Casillo; ten siblings, April Baylor, Michael Baylor, Ashley (Dave) Carpenter, Steven Stoner, Tim McMasters, Stephanie Orr, Sarah Green, Tina Burgio, Mark Fryer and David Tuper; his dog, Ryker; as well as numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.

Ben was predeceased by his father, Grover Grishaber and his maternal grandmother, Marianne Lock.

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Middlesex Baptist Church

Thursday, September 29, 2022
2:00 PM – 4:00 PM
Middlesex Baptist Church
West Avenue, Middlesex
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Funeral Service

Middlesex Baptist Church

Thursday, September 29, 2022
4:00 PM
Middlesex Baptist Church
West Avenue, Middlesex
Get Directions


Lizzie Antinoro from Fairport, NY on Sep. 25, 2022

My gosh Alyssa. I am so sorry. I will say some prayers for him!!

Donna Bergman from Branchport,NY on Sep. 25, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories help you through this difficult time.

Bob & Val DeLeo from Shortsville, NY on Sep. 26, 2022

We are holding Ben's family and friends close in prayer. We are so saddened to hear about his passing - such a devastating loss. May the happy memories of Ben shine light into your aching hearts.

Susan Grishaber-Sulli from Rochester, NY on Sep. 26, 2022

Denise I am so sorry to hear about Ben! Time has gone by so fast I never meant to loose touch with you or Ben I am sorry! You and your family are in my prayers! Alyssa I am so sorry for your loss! You are in my prayers! He looks just like his grandfather, William Royal Grishaber and his dad Eugene! God Bless you! ???

Lisa Don McAnn from Middlesex NY on Sep. 28, 2022

This breaks our hearts but we know Ben is with Jesus and he is no longer in pain. Don and Lisa McAnn

Michelle Dryden from elma ny on Sep. 28, 2022

Dearest Denise, I'm so sorry for your loss, no matter where our lives take us Family will always be the family. Our prayers are with you, Love, Aunt Shelly

Renate Rappold from Brockport, NY on Sep. 29, 2022

Denise and family, My heart is broken for you all. May the Lord hold you and comfort you as you grieve.
Renate Rappold (Cornerstone Church)

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